Month: November 2014

  • Furious or wounded or both

    I remain in awe of the strength of the survivors who shared their stories with me. Women and men both, with terrible tales of past abuse. We must find a way to do better. It’s hard to feel safe, I am finding. It’s hard to feel truly looked after, truly cared for, despite my many…

  • So you’d like to put your shoulder to the boulder

    So, that was surprising. I don’t know what I expected when I pressed publish yesterday. But I couldn’t have predicted the wave of response — especially from those who shared in the comments and in emails to me their own stories of violence, of pushing for change, of wanting to do something, anything, about the…